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From: Garry Thomas

Subject: Introduction

Question:

I get nervous when introducing people. Whose name do I say first?

Answer: This is a very common question. The person of highest honor should be the name stated first. For example: when introducing a minister to a female you would say, "Reverend Jones, I would like you to meet Mrs. Pearl."

From: Elizabeth Healy

Subject: Table Manners

Question:

I'm confused as to whether or not it's OK to put your elbows on the table

Answer: This is a common misconception. Rules very throughout the world. In the United States, it is acceptable to put your elbows on the table during conversation between courses. However, it is debated that a person looks more polished if they never do so.

From: Rachel Williams

Subject: Makeup at the Table

Question:

Is it alright to brush my hair or put on makeup at the table as long as I do it discreetly?

Answer: It is never appropriate to brush or comb your hair at the table as hair might get into the food.

From: Casey Howard

Subject: Everyday Etiquette

Question:

Is it considered proper for a woman to open the door for a man?

Answer: Yes, in a social setting it is appropriate for a woman to open the door for an elderly or disabled man. In a business setting, men and women are considered equal. Therefore, it is always proper for a lady to open the door for a gentleman. However, you might want to consider gentleman from older generations still hold on to the traditional values that require a man to open the door for a woman, and you may want to use your desecration in those individual situations.